Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year??

February… surely not too late to wish everyone a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year?? I feel very slack…..

A quick catch up:

- Snow. Yes, it has been snowing alot here. Although it didn’t snow on Christmas day, it was still lingering around so it was at least a ‘white Christmas’ in some respects. It did warm up for a little while (and by that, I mean it topped 8 degrees!) but it was briefly snowing again this morning as I walked to the train station. I don’t mind the snow but the novelty does wear off when all the footpaths turn into icy death traps.

- Holidays. The boy and I got away just after Christmas to a cute little National Trust cottage called Whitegates. We almost got snowed in on the last day but managed to drive/slide away and get back to London as planned. I do have the most beautiful photos of the cottage in the snow so I should dig them out sometime. Unfortunately neither he nor I could work out how to light the coal fire so we had to have every heater (that we could find) on for most of the time. It was just nice to get away from work and from busy, busy London.

- Work. I started back at work (with the Vodafone grant) in mid-January and that will continue until mid-March. It’s been rather stressful and extremely busy. There are only two employed staff members and one of them has been off sick since December. The other doesn’t work on Mondays and works from home on Wednesdays so it’s been hectic but I do enjoy having so much work to do because I’m never bored and I feel really useful (which was the whole point of the Vodafone grant anyway!). When this finishes, I will not only have to decide what I’m doing (keep this job – if it’s an option, find something else or take up V&A internship etc), I will also need to find somewhere to live for a few months. Anyone got a spare room in London somewhere? I’m really lovely…. honestly!

- Church. I’ve tried a couple of churches in Stevenage but none of them were really right for me. Most of my judging comes from how friendly the parishioners are and I think I hit the jackpot yesterday at a place about a 20 minutes walk from where I live now. I must try and lower my singing voice though because I was approached by a few parishioners, one chorister and even the organist, all commenting on my voice! I had a nice cup of tea with them and even agreed to give the choir a go. It was a nice service and the people seem lovely.

- Singing. Didn’t do too much over Christmas, just a charity concert in a cathedral. Most exciting though is that rehearsals start with the BBC Symphony Chorus for the Proms soon. I do hope I’m around for them…..

So yes, things are a bit up in the air at the moment. Must find a place to stay in order to keep my job/internship and keep singing……

What I woke up to this morning….

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Snow

Snow2

….. so I’m having a ’snow’ day and trying to get some university work done.

My news

I have won a placement in the Vodafone World of Difference competition. This means that Vodafone will pay me to work for the Imperial War Museum for two months and provide me with a free phone so that I can write updates about it all.

How exciting!!

It does complicate matters somewhat as I was supposed to be going straight from one voluntary internship to the next (at the V&A). Will have to see what they say about moving that one back…..

Ieper (Ypres)

A long time in the planning, I finally made my pilgrimage to Ieper for Remembrance Day.

It was a very moving experience. I arrived on the 10th of November and found my hotel. Settled in with a cup of tea then braved the cold and the masses of people to attend the Last Post Ceremony at the Menin Gate Memorial. This ceremony has been happening every night at 8pm since the 1920s. I managed to get quite a good position, under the Gate on the top of a platform.

Menin Night

The following day, on Remembrance Day, I joined the Poppy Parade. As part of this, you take a handful of poppy petals and march through the streets of Ieper (with the military bands!) and deposit your petals in baskets when you reach the Menin Gate. During the 11am ceremony, these poppies are released through the three holes on the top of the Menin Gate and to create a very magical moment.

Menin Gate Poppies

It’s a very emotional place to be. There are over 54,000 name inscribed on this memorial and they are only some of the missing. They couldn’t fit all of the names on this memorial so some are commemorated at Tyne Cot. It’s overwhelming to think about the amount of grief associated with just one name on the memorial. I even found three brothers who were all killed on the same day. I took this photo to try and give some perspective to how big the memorial is, how many names are on just one panel:

Menin Gate names

It was good to see that there were a range of nationalities coming together to commemorate:

Nationalities

In the afternoon, I escaped the crowds in Ieper by catching the train to Poperinghe. This is another important town associated with the First World War for two main (and very constrasting) reasons.

1) This used to be the place where they executed the British deserters.

Executions

I think that these days, many of the men that were executed in this place might have been diagnosed with Post Traumatic Stress Syndrome. So sad.

2) In contrast to this, Poperinghe, being one of the first villages behind the British front lines, was where Talbot House (or Toc-H) is located. It was set up as a place of refuge where men of any rank could get together and read, play cards or just socialise. Interestingly, there was no alcohol allowed.

Talbot House

Talbot House has a beautiful chapel in the attic (to be closer to God!) where many soldiers spent time. Some were even baptised and confirmed. Sadly, many of them never returned and there are items in the chapel dedicated to their memory.

Chapel

The following day, I spent the morning walking around Ieper. This town was completely flattened in the First World War. It is a fascinating place because, being rebuilt to strict guidelines, it really does look like a medieval market town. The Cathedral, for instance, looks like it has been there forever:

Cathedral

There are only a few telltale signs such as a few of the original damaged artefacts in a glassed off area at one end.

I also went to St George’s Memorial Church which was built after the war and everything in it (chairs, font, bells, etc) were donated in memory of someone. It’s quite an overwhelming place to think what each plaque represents:

St George's

I also took a photo of the Poppy Field that had sprung up next to the Menin Gate memorial:

Poppies

That same afternoon I went on a Battlefield Tour around the Ieper Salient. The gentleman who took my small tour (5 people) was utterly engaging. He had been doing tours since the 70s, had met many WW1 veterans and had previously been the curator of Talbot House. I was amazed that he had such an enthusiasm for teaching others after all these years and he told me that there is alway something to learn. For my benefit, he took us to many sites that were siginificant to Australians. One thing that had a huge impact on me was how many unknown graves there were. I had no idea. Tyne Cot cemetery has about 70% unknown graves there.

Tyne Cot

As mentioned above, this is the other place that has a memorial to the missing.

Tyne Cot Memorial

I’ll end this post with a grave at Tyne Cot which had an anti-war inscription: “Sacrified to the fallacy that war can end war”. When walking across the cemeteries, one does wonder ‘Why?’. I also found myself thanking them all.

Young

A (not so new) nephew

The slack aunty that I am, I have not yet posted about my new little nephew. Elijah was born to my sister and her husband on the 18th of October.

Cutie. I hope to see him one day soon…..

Elijah sleeping

A family photo:

Family photo

Mother and son:

Mother and son